Have you ever noticed how it is so easy to find what is wrong with everyone else, but we can’t find one thing wrong with ourselves?  Many times I have judged someone else based on gossip or just appearance.  It is an unfair thing to do and I hope someone wouldn’t do that to me.  Our focus on other people can keep us from seeing things we need to change in our life. 

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.  “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”
Matthew 7:1-2