Have you ever tried to understand something that just made no since.  Sometimes we try to figure out why things happen, but there is no rhyme or reason.  When you are in the midst of a trial in your life or something bad happens unexpected, we usually have to fight bitterness and confusion.
You might ask the question,where do we go from here?  Our minds try to comprehend the now, but remember God sees the big picture.  Ask Him to help you understand and to guide you.  He will help us out of the ruts in the road but we got ask for help.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.”  Proverbs 3:5-6